A sad revelation I came to today was about how people don’t allow you to be you. I’m primarily speaking about my family members here, though this can be anyone really.
Somehow, family members seem to think they know all about you since they’ve been the ones that have been around you since birth. However, they’re basing most of what is known about you off of judgment. Judging your standards of who you are now, from what you were then.
Sadly, most people do this to you at some point in your life. Whether it be your family members, friends, co-workers, or acquaintances. People you’ve come in contact with in general base your identity to what they judge about you from what they know of you.
You, however are the only one that really knows who you are.
Where things can get a bit messy is when you search outside of yourself to find yourself. You can’t base your identity on what others think of you.
You can only base your identity on what you know about yourself.
What your likes and dislikes are, change with each vibrational level you go thru . Sometimes it can take you years to change a vibrational flow, keeping your likes or dislikes to things at that point the same, and other times, it only takes a few days, weeks or months to change your existence.
The people around you are not with you on a day to day basis as much as you’re with yourself. Sure, they can be living with you in the same house, but they’re not in your head with your thoughts 24/7. Only you are.
TODAY, don’t let other peoples judgements of you hamper what you’re all about. You are the only one that knows you. You are the only one that’s really in charge of loving you. All else comes along for the ride within your life. But you are the one that is in charge every moment of every day. 🙂
Never judge another, not even yourself.
Kelli Spencer-Love The Life You Have, Vibrational Life Coach