What happens when you’re struggling with what is, knowing you still need to keep dreaming about what you want to be??
In my thoughts, it’s called torture. You’re feeling miserable because of what’s going on, and yet, you’re supposed to dream about all the fun things you want when your dreams become reality. In the meantime, you still live with the crap that’s going on.
The official rules of the Law of Attraction state that you need to keep dreaming about what you want, all the time, living in what you have. The rules also state you must FEEL GOOD, BE HAPPY, and POSITIVE with where you’re at in order to attract what you want. Herein lies the dilemma….
Here comes the ‘how‘ factor. A question often asked at this point is “If I’m feeling so lousy, then ‘how’ do I attract what I want??
The answer to this question lies in what you do.
First off asking ‘how‘ is not the way to get there. Every time you ask ‘how‘ to do anything you’ve just made yourself weak. You just showed the universe you’re not evening trying to see a different point of view. All you’re doing is asking for help without even trying to attempt anything on your own. THIS MAKES YOU WEAK. You’ve now given your power to someone else expecting them to do it for you by giving you the answers. At this point, there’s not a lot of energy going towards what you want. You’ll never achieve anything this way. You’re now just sitting around waiting for the answer(s). In other words, you’re not attempting anything at all. No action steps are going towards what you want. This is a big NO-NO in the law of attraction rules.
Instead, you say….’show me the way.’ It even feels stronger doesn’t it?
What this does is shows the universe you’re going to give it your all. That you’ve made a decision to move forward instead of staying in the torture of what’s been going on. And, you’ll do whatever you’re shown in order to achieve it. Even if, you don’t know what you’ll need to do at that moment in order to succeed.
If you’re asking how, you’ve not yet made a decision at all. You’re just searching for something. Then, when you’re shown the answers, that come from someone else, you’ll decide at that time if you’ll try it or not. You make the decision right there on whether you can do it or not.
When you ask to be shown the way, you’ve already made the decision that you can and will do it, only that you need a little guidance.
Now, there’s power! You don’t attract weakness when you do it this way. You keep your power, because you’re not afraid to see what you’ll have to do in order to achieve the success’s you want.
Next, it’s time to TRUST….Remember the laws of attraction work with the universe, not hands on acquisitions. Therefore, you’ll need to have faith in what will come (remember at this point nothing is really working for you, and at this point, it could be feeling pretty crappy). You need to trust there really is a force you cannot see working for you. You need to keep a certain faith, a strength, that shows the universe you believe. And if you believe, this then will keep you out of fear.
Next, you need to implement gratitude.
Yes, gratitude. An appreciation for things aournd you or about you.
By implementing gratitude into your day, you bring about feelings in your body that are strong, allowing you to feel good no matter what’s been happening. You now have a power aimed at faith, keeping you out of fear, propelling you towards what you want.
TODAY, ask to be shown the way, working the steps of the law of attraction. You can’t be afraid, because today, you’re enacting faith, believing you’ll have the life you wanted all along as you try to work what you’re being shown in order to get there. 🙂